Too much choice (1)

[james_davis_nicoll]

It seems to me that if you let people marry who they like, this can only inevitably lead them to want to exercise choice in other fields of human endeavour and then where would we be? Today it's three people getting married but tomorrow it could be drinking water with a bit of lime in it instead of a more economically strategic soft drink or someone deciding they don't want to work 80 hours weeks.

I'm talking to you, Brazil

Comments

[mmcirvin.livejournal.com]

My standard response to that is more like "while the associated legal consequences to work out would be more complex than with same-sex marriage, I'd be perfectly OK with legal polygamy, but that is a different discussion from the one you are currently trying to derail."

And I am pretty sure I have seen other liberals say this.

[theweaselking.livejournal.com]

I'm pretty sure I'm with you: "There's nothing wrong with plural marriage that a COMPLETE REHAUL FROM SCRATCH of all the laws that presume a two-person exclusive marriage can't solve. In the meant time, two-person exclusive is embedded at every level, and needs to be fixed before plural marriage can function in our legal system."

Which is not to say that's a good thing, only that that's a current thing.

[mmcirvin.livejournal.com]

Yeah, the thing about same-sex marriage is that, once marriage is assumed to be a union between two partners with comparable rights, enabling it is legally very simple; you just remove references to the sex of the participants. Increase the number, so that people don't have at most one spouse, and lots of things have to be fiddled with, many of them involving money and property: taxes, inheritance, automatic insurance beneficiaries, etc. In many cases the necessary legal hacks and limits on the practice will not please everyone.

But this isn't any kind of moral objection, it's just that an observation that there's much more work involved.

[theweaselking.livejournal.com]

Yup. Even as a straight white monogamous male I think plural marriage is a LEGAL headache (and one I wish would be addressed sooner rather than later) and not a moral one. My sole objection to plural marriage is paperwork and the affected assumptions.

[sean o'hara (from livejournal.com)]

Would the consequences of legalized polygamy really be that much greater than the introduction of no-fault divorce?

[theweaselking.livejournal.com]

Yes, because no-fault divorce only changed how the marriage could end. Plural marriage changes a great many rules about inheritance and decisionmaking and financial liability, in ways that the existing rules can't properly address.

There's no reason they can't be changed to address it, but they need to be.

[james-nicoll.livejournal.com]

Divorce )+ subsequent marriage complicates estate management.

[mmcirvin.livejournal.com]

No-fault divorce had huge social consequences. Mostly positive ones, but cultural conservatives would disagree.