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james_davis_nicoll) wrote2016-02-28 10:29 am
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Encountered one of those polls offering choices that are not necessarily opposed:
"Keep things in their original state.
Make changes, even if only for the sake of change."
Depends if the current state suits my goals.
"I am very excited when I meet new people; I can talk to anyone about various topics.
If I am around people who I am not familiar with, I will feel a bit uncomfortable; some people consider me to be restrained and reserved."
Yes.
"My social circle is very wide. I have a lot of friends and acquaintances.
I have very close relationships with a small amount of people. I am very cautious and serious when I choose my friends."
Yes: Social circle is not the same as close relationship.
"I focus on the outer world.
I focus my attention internally. I spend lots of time on introspection."
Pardon me while I throat-punch the author of this quiz.
Make changes, even if only for the sake of change."
Depends if the current state suits my goals.
"I am very excited when I meet new people; I can talk to anyone about various topics.
If I am around people who I am not familiar with, I will feel a bit uncomfortable; some people consider me to be restrained and reserved."
Yes.
"My social circle is very wide. I have a lot of friends and acquaintances.
I have very close relationships with a small amount of people. I am very cautious and serious when I choose my friends."
Yes: Social circle is not the same as close relationship.
"I focus on the outer world.
I focus my attention internally. I spend lots of time on introspection."
Pardon me while I throat-punch the author of this quiz.
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But I will. Oh Yes, I will.
I seem to recall a fairly fascinating study - and I have COMPLETELY forgotten in which class, or who did it or anything - that also basically concluded that if you have a decent therapist/client match and the therapist is relatively empathic/competent, therapy tends to work well even if the system used is bunk, so it's always more complicated, I guess.
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Which is not the same as actually getting help that is useful long-term, but it's something.
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