I'm not out offline. Due to my appearance, I am assumed to be a man. I present as a man and use male pronouns in public. I have labelled myself in public as a man. If I'm on a panel and James regards me as a man, that is entirely due to my choices. That's not James labelling me, that's James reacting to the labels I'm wearing.

If you have a specific concern that you'd like James to take into consideration, you really should contact James directly. Because these hypotheticals you've brought up aren't really resolveable to anyone's satisfaction.