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fred_mouse ([personal profile] fred_mouse) wrote2025-06-29 09:39 pm
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Goal setting question(s)

Now that I've written up the six month summary of how my 2025 New Year's Resolutions have gone, I'm looking at what I want for the next six months. Which might turn out to be a 12 month set of goals; I'm kind of being flexible with whatever works.

But!

One of my intentions is that I have goals for each of the areas of my life that are important to me--there is no rating of how big that area has to be, just that I see it as an important circle. Two of these I did not manage to get a coherent goal for across the last six months. I'm not sure that it is possible to have coherent goals, but that might be me looking from the wrong perspective.

Which is where my question comes in: what suggestions do people have as to goals for 'Family' and 'Social'? I'm okay with drive by commentary from people who aren't familiar with the limitations of my life, because not knowing those details might be an important part of different perspective.

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lsanderson ([personal profile] lsanderson) wrote2025-06-29 07:49 am

2025.06.29

‘Explosive increase’ of ticks that cause meat allergy in US due to climate crisis
Unusually aggressive lone star ticks, common in the south-east, are spreading to areas previously too cold for them
Oliver Milman
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/jun/29/lone-star-ticks-increase-climate-crisis

‘Lidar is lame’: why Elon Musk’s vision for a self-driving Tesla taxi faltered
The company’s rollout of its new driverless cars has gotten off to a wobbly start – and rival Waymo remains well ahead
Nick Robins-Early, Dara Kerr and Johana Bhuiyan
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2025/jun/29/elon-musk-tesla-robotaxi

Tens of thousands defy Hungary’s ban on Pride in protest against Orbán
Crackdown on Pride is part of effort to curb democratic freedoms ahead of a hotly-contested election next year
Lili Rutai in Budapest, and Ashifa Kassam
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/jun/28/tens-of-thousands-defy-hungarys-ban-on-pride-in-protest-against-orban

Meera Sodha’s vegan recipe for Thai-style tossed walnut and tempeh noodles
Rice noodles topped with a rubble of tempeh and walnuts and tossed in garlic oil and a sweet, salty and tangy hot sauce
Meera Sodha
https://www.theguardian.com/food/2025/jun/28/vegan-thai-walnut-and-tempeh-noodles-recipe-meera-sodha

America's dive bars are disappearing. Montana didn’t get the memo
The state boasts cozy venues featuring buffalo mounts, barbecue and bras on the wall – but the mark of a great bar is always the people
Janie Osborne
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/ng-interactive/2025/jun/28/montana-dive-bars

'Proud to be gay': K-pop star on coming out to the world
Yvette Tan BBC News Reporting fromSingapore
Juna Moon BBC Korean
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cn5kx7wn1nzo
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rydra_wong ([personal profile] rydra_wong) wrote2025-06-29 01:54 pm
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PSA

Disco Elysium is currently 90% off in the Steam summer sale, making it a mere £3.49.

Play Disco Elysium, everybody. Yes, even if you don't play video games.

If you understand the principle of a Choose Your Own Adventure book, have a vague sense that "stats" and "levelling up" are things, and can grasp "click to go to a place/interact with an object," you are sufficiently equipped.
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fred_mouse ([personal profile] fred_mouse) wrote2025-06-29 06:04 pm

New Year's Resolutions - close out

Given that the last three weeks have been a completely different pace, and my expectations of my self for the rest of the year are quite different to where I was at the beginning of the year, I'm going to close out the set of goals I set myself at the beginning of the year (Note: I'm not working from that page, but from an offline edited version). The last update I did was May 20th. I contemplated writing a new set of resolutions in this post concurrently with wrapping up these, but have decided instead to create an offline document of Mid-Year Resolutions. I might get around to posting that, but chances are low.

Lots of details, possibly only interesting to me )

tl;dr: great progress for work; good progress on craft, reading, physical - exercise and health; not great on house, organisation, decluttering, writing, garden, learning, money. No goals to compare to for family or social. Having a list continues to be useful.

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adrian_turtle ([personal profile] adrian_turtle) wrote2025-06-29 12:33 am

Boston and London

I noticed something when I was in London a couple of months ago. For years, I've been seeing UK TERFs absolutely freak out about the possibility that a transwoman might be in a stall next to a ciswoman. So I somehow thought they were less private than the stalls here. Or at least no more private. The standard I'm accustomed to is that the doors come down to about knee height, maybe a little lower. (Plenty of space to run a mop under them.) The public toilets I used in London had doors that almost touched the tops of my shoes! And the doors closed with proper hinges, without big gaps on the hinge side.

I've always known the TERFs were outrageous bullies, but it was so weird to see this particular wrongness. It's like they've been saying they hate people because it's raining outside, and then it turns out it wasn't even raining?
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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-06-28 07:49 pm

Been watching new Matlock with Jenn

The set and costume designers heard about blue-and-orange color schemes and just decided to run with it. I swear, they bought out everything blue in the store. Even the post-its are blue! And what isn't blue or teal is orange, or tan, or gold.

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Read more... )
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sturgeonslawyer ([personal profile] sturgeonslawyer) wrote2025-06-28 09:02 pm

Sørina Higgens, ed.: The Inklings and King Arthur (2025-29)

Being an symposium on the topic suggested by the title. Integrity demands that I mention here a slight but friendly on-line acquaintance with Ms Higgins.

There are two ways to review a book of this sort -- a lengthy discussion of each article in the book; or to simply make some remarks about it as a whole. As I have neither the energy nor the background to do the first, I'll try to make the best I can of the second.

To begin with, this is a seriously academic volume (which is where my background lacks; I was a techie in school and, to the extent I know anything about literature and criticism, it's autodidactic). There are, at least, two possible pitfalls for this for a casual reader.

The most obvious is that academic papers are frequently written at a forty-seventh grade reading level, with a burgeoning of hypersesquepedalianisms and tortured, involved, and difficult to follow, if only because it takes side trips before getting to its point, syntax.

These essays, as a whole, do not fall into that particular pit. Though there are occasional terms an average reader won't know, they're mostly made pretty clear, if not by definition, then by their usage. And the sentences are clear.

The other pitfall is a kind of vanity of thought. More than one literary essay I've read comes up with an interesting theory of the meaning, symbolism, or what-have-you, the writer(s) of the text(s) under examination used in creating them.

Now, I personally hold to the position that, if, when reading with respect and integrity, you find something in the text, it is perfectly legitimately there, if only for you. Once a text is published, it no longer belongs to the writer, but to the world, and, while the writer certainly has the right to declare what she meant when writing, she is no longer the sole authority on what it actually says. Another writer (reviewer, essayist, critic, whatever) has every right to say that, in interpreting the text before them, they see aspects X, Y, and Z, which nobody has noticed before.

What they do _not_ have, I think, is the right to say that the writer _meant_ for X, Y, and Z to be there. This is a dangerous position to take, because it is essentially an attempt to read the writer's mind. This is obviously a pitfall for the essayist, but why do I call it a pitfall for the reader?

Simply, because the reader is at risk of believing that the essayist has, indeed, read the mind of a writer who may be a continent, or several centuries (or both), away, living and writing in a context that the essayist simply does not share.

Now, this can be done for amusement: as for example the devotees of the Sherlock Holmes canon who will defend to the death their claim that Watson -- or maybe Holmes -- was in fact a woman: which is obviously bosh, but it can be fun bosh.

But when it's in a context where it is clearly intended to be taken seriously, a casual reader may simply not have the wherewithal to say (as I said after reading one particular essay), "That's a very interesting, and quite probably useful, way to look at the imagery in those books; but there is simply no way that you can convince me that >writer< actually had that in mind when he wrote those texts."

There are mitigating factors, which mostly come down to two related points: the essayist I'm speaking of was clearly writing for their fellow academics; and academic essays, as a whole, don't tend to fall into the hands of casual readers.

These factors are somewhat abnegated, though, in that the title of the volume could not have been better designed to attract a certain class of casual readers if the editor had set out to do so -- which, I feel certain, she did not.

As to the essays themselves: there was not one that bored me, nor made me think it was bosh or navelgazing. Some of the essays did not, in the end, fully convince me of the main points the essayist was putting forth, but not because the points were trivial or ludicrous.

There are one or two whose relationship to the overall subject of the book seemed tenuous at best. Indeed, there is one where, if a few passing mentions of the Inklings were removed, the integrity of the argument would not be harmed in the least.

Although I am not of the book's target audience, it was, for me, an interesting and enjoyable, even sometimes quite enlightening, if quite slow, read. If (like me) you have been immersed in Inkling lore for many years, though not at a fully academic level, you mighth enjoy it. But I cannot, in good conscience, recommend it to a casual reader who is fascinated by The Lord of the Rings and the Narniad, and also likes tales of King Arthur and the Round Table.
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sturgeonslawyer ([personal profile] sturgeonslawyer) wrote2025-06-28 09:00 pm

Maria Dahvana Headley: Beowulf: A New Translation (2025-28)

This was widely bruited on publication as a "feminist" translation of the Anglo-Saxon saga; I don't quite see it, which is both a disappointment and a relief. Headly does what she can to give personality and even power to the female characters -- of whom there are relatively few, the most notable being Grendel's mother.

What it really seems to be, is a street-language, even somewhat hip-hop-ish, version of Beowulf. The goal seems to be to give modern readers, and especially young modern readers, an experience analogous to what the denizens of a mead-hall might have in listening to the original. To this end she uses both rhyme and alliteration, but neither in any particular pattern.

As far as I can tell (I don't read Anglo-Saxon, but I am familiar with a couple of other translations) she is faithful to the text within these parameters.

Here's the first few lines, to get the feel.

Bro! Tell me we still know how to speak of kings! In the old days,
everyone knew what men were: brave, bold, glory-bound. Only
stories now, but I'll sound the Spear-Danes' song, hoarded for hungry times.

Their first father was a foundling: Scyld Scefing.
He spent his youth fists up, browbeating every barstool-brother,
bonfiring his enemies. That man began in the waves, a baby in a basket,
but he bootstrapped his way into a kingdom...


I find this style readable and enjoyable. It wouldn't do for a class in early English literature. But then, it isn't intended for that.
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sturgeonslawyer ([personal profile] sturgeonslawyer) wrote2025-06-28 07:47 pm

Heinrich Heine: Poems and Ballads (2025-27)

The poems in this Kindle edition were translated from the German by Emma Lazarus, she who wrote the famous(?) Statue of Liberty poem. She also provided a biographical introduction.

He was born Harry Heine to a middle-class Jewish family in Dusseldorf in 1799, and had an education remarkable mostly for having wandered from one German university to another. He was stymied in his attempts to follow a profession by a legal restriction: Jews could not do so in Prussia. In 1825, he gave in and was baptised, receiving the name Heinrich. But he never did really follow a profession, and, disgusted with the way Germany oppressed his people, moved to France. He had written poetry for some time, and in France he became something of a darling in the salons.

The poems? Occasionally humorous, in a German sort of way, they are mostly inspired by (a) his unrequited love for a cousin and (b) his obsession with the sea. Poetry in translation is very hit-or-miss, and I'm afraid that I found this collection to fall mostly on the side of miss. Part of this is doubtless because of Lazarus's translations, which tend toward facile and repetitive rhymes.
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mecurtin ([personal profile] mecurtin) wrote2025-06-28 11:21 pm
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Purrcy in the morning

During the heat wave this past week there was no Purrcy on the bed, but I woke up to him at my feet again yesterday and this morning. Lookit that face! Lookit how I touch that paw with a single finger!

Purrcy the tuxedo tabby wriggles on the bed to gaze lovingly at the camera human. His pupils are blown wide, his paws are in bunny position on his white fluffy tummy, one back paw is stretch forward toward the camera where a human hand reaches to touch a toe with a single finger.

I haven't been Purrcy-posting regularly for a while, because I've been tired and distracted and didn't have time -- because of the fascism, but also because of sitting outside in the spring and listening to birds. I'm trying to get back into it now, as you can see, but it's hard to keep in focus.

Also, my sciatica has been acting up, which means a lot of time just lying in bed, dozing or reading. I'm going to the doctor on Monday, hopefully I'll get a steroid injection or something similar & things will be better for a while. I'll try to write more tomorrow.
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On the DEWLine 2.0: Dwight Williams ([personal profile] dewline) wrote2025-06-28 10:05 pm
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Survival Is a Form of Victory

This is a thing I have to believe, especially in these times.

If you see me as a lifeboat of any kind, I hope to serve you well.
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Laughing Lady ([personal profile] nilchance) wrote2025-06-28 07:44 pm

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update: I have survived the funeral. nothing terrible happened aside from some guilt-trips. nobody made a scene. huzzah!

now I'm getting a drink in the hotel bar because fuck this day. XD
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neotoma ([personal profile] neotoma) wrote2025-06-28 05:34 pm
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Farmer's Market -- 28 June 2025 (Sickle Day, 10th of Harvest, Year 233)

2 quarts of yellow sweet cherries, 1 quart of blue berries, 1 pint of black raspberries, 1 pint of apricots, 1 lb of black beans, 1 lb popcorn, 1 strawberry lemonade, 1 quart of chocolate milk, bacon-gruyere wheel, almond croissant, and a lemon tart.

The fruit stand that I usually buy from saved me an apricot from their limited selection today -- the benefits of being friendly, remembering everyone's pronouns, and occasionally wearing one of my ace flag pins.
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flemmings ([personal profile] flemmings) wrote2025-06-28 06:34 pm
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Last night was thunder and rain, welcome enough in that the sidewalk up from my place has become a dog turd trap, ie some animal stepped in dog doo and meandered up the street leaving marks from here to Yarmouth. The marks are still faintly there today but at least better than it was. Also storm brought in, if not cooler, then dryer weather, so the day was sun and warm and breezily pleasant.

Back has been a literal pain all this week, doubtless from couch poratodom, and legs no better, but I made me go out to Wiener's to inquire about extend-a-cutters because the linden is becoming ridiculously umbrageous. On back order, Marty says, should be in at the end of the month. Umm, this *is* the end of the month, isn't it? so after Monday? Yeah, next week, sort of. OK, must come back next week. SND texted me to say the tree people couldn't come right away to do the cherry, so they'd decided to postpone trim until fall or maybe spring, and I foolishly said Maybe I should just get the whole tree done since lord knows it needs it, and they said Good idea happy to chip in. Which means calling up tree services moan groan tremble. But it really does need extreme cutting back.

Then had bento at my old(est) place and dropped by my secondary bank because BoM will give me fives. Except it didn't give me anything. Kept telling me to remove my card after I'd removed my card, then printed a receipt and shut down. So I had to stand in line and wait for a cashier to be free, while hoping there was a way to tell that the ATM actually hadn't dispensed the cash. Must be, surely, or else people would be constantly trying that scam? Anyway, guy had no doubts as to my honesty, voided the ATM withdrawal, and gave me my cash. But from now on I use the left hand machine only, just in case.

There's the yearly recycle event at Central Tech tomorrow. Might go down with that bag of batteries I found in the bunker, though Wiener's will take light bulbs if I remember to bring them. I must move to move but I seriously don't want to. Couch and beanbags and fan and books/ tablet is all I'm up for.
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jennlk ([personal profile] jennlk) wrote2025-06-28 05:38 pm
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It’s a puzzlement:

would this be considered TimeFail or Competency Being Its Own Punishment?

So, I’d been sortof planning on making it to the Annual Picnic this year. It’s been at least a decade since I’ve been, mostly due to TimeFail of various (often competency related) issues. I’d even put in a request for that week off, and had gotten provisional approval. And then the Deputy Treasurer resigned, effective yesterday. There goes that “week off”.

Treasurer had made family plans for that week, as that was basically the only week that neither of her kids had training/work/sportscamp *and* her husband could get off. But that’s the week after summer tax bills hit mailboxes, and people will be coming in to pay them. The OfficeManager can take tax payments, but really doesn’t like to. So somebody has to cover, and as the newbie, that would be me. Unless they can find somebody to hire on as Deputy Treasurer in the next week and a half.
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-06-28 04:36 pm

acelightning has died

I learned this morning that [personal profile] acelightning has died. She was one of the people I only know online, but feel like friends because we have real conversations (in her case, here on Dreamwidth and previously on LJ).
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Rachel Coleman ([personal profile] rmc28) wrote2025-06-28 09:37 pm
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Holiday fun

Friday:

  • Mary Rose, worth the admission fee all by itself, thoroughly absorbing exhibition of the many many objects found within the wreck, and amazing to see the preserved timbers themselves from lots of different angles.
  • lunch
  • dockyard boat tour, including a good look at the Queen Elizabeth aircraft carrier currently in dock (I cannot look at aircraft carriers without Danger Zone playing in my head)
  • HMS Victory, audioguide version with dramatic retelling of the battle of Trafalgar. Very absorbing, impressive amount of the ship available to visit even while restoration is ongoing, very tiring.
  • back to hotel and flop for a little
  • walk, ferry, bus to Gosport ice rink, disco skate, bus, ferry and walk back to hotel; ice is rather worse than Cambridge, but ferry+bus beats 2x Cambridge buses any time

Saturday:

  • sauna and swim for me
  • walk to the dockyard, waterbus to the Explosion Museum of Naval Firepower
  • lunch
  • walk ~2 miles to Submarine Museum
  • walk through of HMS Alliance, also a look around HMS Holland 1 (the first ever Royal Navy submarine)
  • my body in full rebellion against "museum walking" by this point, we took the waterbus back to the main dockyard, got cold drinks, and got back on the dockyard boat tour - different guide, different focus, well worth it
  • little wander around Gunwharf Quays and a little shopping in the outlet stores; having forgotten to bring my ereader, I resorted to buying a newspaper and we sat quietly ignoring each other in a curry gastropub for a while. Eventually we ordered some curry, which was really rather good, and then toddled back to the hotel
  • I decided I'd had enough moving for the day, so now I'm lying on the hotel bed with Glastonbury on the TV, life is good

Tomorrow I think we'll do a couple of brief museum things at the historic dockyard, and then perhaps go for a wander through Southsea. I'm going to watch England v Jamaica tomorrow afternoon (I think R has less than zero interest in football, women's or otherwise) and we've a reservation in the Spinnaker Tower for sunset cocktails tomorrow evening.

physical issues My leg muscles, especially the ones that stabilise hips, knees and ankles, have been giving me some grief since I went clubbing after the Kodiaks won playoffs at end of May. I'm reasonably sure it's muscular fatigue and not joint/ligament damage. Rest helps, but so does gentle movement: if I sit still too long everything has seized up a bit when I stand up, but loosens up again as I start moving. Skating and hockey are fine once I'm warmed up. Yoga and general stretching seem to help, as do hot baths and sauna. Steady walking is a lot better for me than the stop-start of museum walking, as the last two days have made clear. I love museums but right now the spirit is willing and the flesh has Had Enough.